Dating a divorced woman with kids
So even though you’re the man in her life now, she will always find a way to differentiate you with the ex.Whether you’re having a nice meal, she will unconsciously say “oh my ex hated mashed potatoes, so glad you like it,” or you go shopping and she will say “my ex hated shopping.” In the beginning of your relationship you won’t notice it but gradually it becomes a pattern.So, they pick up a trick or two in their failed marriage and they use this to their advantage.Regardless of whether they or the spouse did the cheating, if infidelity was one of the reasons their marriage ended, then they will step up the game and make sure it doesn’t happen again even if it means sticking to you like glue and watching you like a hawk. Some even go to the extent of hiring a private detective just to satisfy their paranoia.She will find ways to get you to do the unthinkable of you dropping your sorry knee and asking her to marry you, because she’s not having it being called a divorcee, and if you’re dumb enough to succumb to that, then you’ve just reserved a VIP ticket in her hell.You are more likely to be dumped -Statistics show that over 75% of divorces are initiated by the woman.
So instead of swallowing her pride and just living the single life, most women bow to social pressure.
“My ex did this, my ex hates/loves that, my ex is blah blah blah.” If her ex has found happiness with someone else, it doesn’t go down well with her.
Even if she is happy with you, she will still want to find ways to infiltrate her ex’s life as it hurts her badly that another woman is successful with the ex and not her.
So that in mind I decided to investigate the other side of the coin, seeing I received a lot of requests to write a rebuttal on this subject.
So before you continue reading this article, flip over to this page, so you get the gist of why I’m writing this article.